I'm not quite sure what you're wanting, as you list a very odd combination of directions. Here's the top possibilities:
Plug a CF/microdrive into a PC motherboard directly with this $6 adapter
A card that plugs into a CF slot and has IDE on the other end exists, but is typically fairly expensive(~$40). Call Advantech
, as they sell them for their SBCs. There isn't a female end on it, but a small cable will solve that.This adapter is passive and would not work on a Zaurus without a lot of programming to get the slot into IDE mode.
If you're looking to plug in a IDE drive into your non-USB equipped Zaurus, it's a bit of a long route, but you could get a PCMCIA to CF adapter and a PCMCIA to IDE adapter (both cheap off eBay).