I am newbie user also. I also had a little fear and trepidation when I first flashed my rom and held my breath. But the fact remains, these little machines are beautiful, but you need to read up first on what your are planning to do with your Z. I usually wait a while untill, I see the bugs are removed, and follow a few postings regularly when I am thinking of moving/changing things on my Z.
I love to tweak! and if i wanted just an organizer, I would have bought a palm device or HPPC - but I love to tinker and experiment and learn. So when I mess things up, I take a deep breath and just start over. But because I am a newbie, I always check the info I am reading regarding which Z, which Rom, needed libraries, types of hardware etc.,
I would never think of putting water in my car for fuel, and then think my car is at fault cuz it stops running, but I read the car manual first to see what the manufactor says is best for my car in fuel, check-ups etc., (end of stupid analogy). Since I am a female also, I am a newbie with cars - so the analogy works for me - it might go over the heads of you fellas out there.
read and read this forum and google the web. You will be amazed what people are doing with their clever little machines. Soon you will be doing it too! I know cuz I am.
Lareya (satisfied Z user)