actually, i did another method. I installed xqt and made a list of necessery files needed to run xqt off the sd card. after i established the bare minimum files needed to have xqt running in the sd card, i managed to occupy only 2mb. So the other 18 or what ever runs off the sd card.
After i established xqt, i Installed silpheed and gimp. Both ran off the sd. I was so happy that i Tried to install debian and openoffice....to my surprise, I cant figure out why i am the onli idiot who cant run those applications. ext2 even by then wont run.
so.......i got emacs, gimp, and silpheed running off the sd drive while still maintaining all other applications in my system(alot of software) and dstill have xqt. I am not putting this information out until i really get it narrowed down though. Im just trying out various methods........ sucks cuz it is so time consuming.