all:
kde 3.5 works very nicely, if a bit slowly, thanks to all the previous suggestions.
summarizing a bit for folks just starting out (with a 3100):
make sure that you allocate max memory to rom (128Mb).
[oops... correction, its 121...]
i've loaded kde (not the lite pkg) 2-different times, once in rom, once on the 3100 'hard drive'.
there was a negligible speed difference in loading. i'm probably going to revert to the 'hard drive' installation -- since kde stores a lot of info in the root directory; the extra space is nice.
speaking of which, does everyone run in 'root' mode?
good form is to also remember to rename your original .xinitrc to xinitrc.old (i use xinitrc.mbox), so i can easily revert to the matchbox gui. then symlink startkde to .xinitrc per earlier suggestions. startx makes it happen.
as i began to use it, i wonder if anyone has any further suggestions for including battery and/or memory monitors in the toolbar. also, is there a graphic pkg manager?
i'll be comparing some korganizer vs kopi over the next few days if anyone is interested.
korganizer would be nice, since i would like to access some calendars via internet (and, at last check, kopi did not support this option).
thanks again