OK,
If anyone is interested i will post a document on the following
Installing mambo 4.5.1
insalling phpmyadin 4.5x
installing phpjob engine
installing phpbb (this drives this website)
configuring apache, mysql so it doesn't use all your memory
setting up zaurus as a server using CF wireless
what to kill in process manager
From my point of view, i would move to another kernel if i can prove all of this runs fine in Cacko, OZ etc, to date they don't and to help i have donated money to both of these to keep them going...please do the same, i for one do not have the expertise to do what these guys are doing.