well I got it installed, but with a slight problem.
1. select windows managers (xfce4) from icewm, launches with no issues.
2. replace icewm & with xfce4 & in vncserver script and I get xfce4 with not window borders, any ideas as to why?
btw I have got some nice startup script now(simple but effective) login then just run the script goes to debian.
Side question, is there a way to run a script to autologin and say run vncserver/fbvnc when you goto a specific runlevel?