Don't forget about the anti piracy built into the HDMI standard. Its a sort of DRM, think if you research HDCP you'll find out more. Basically stops you projecting a movie to a device that isn't HDCP compliant.
I can HDMI Netflix to my TV, as its HDCP compliant. Try to HDMI to a computer monitor, it doesn't show. (non HDCP compliant)
Do believe this is an Anti piracy feature of HDMI that may be getting people mixed results too, those who aren't aware of HDCP. Of course this should affect normal projection of desktop, apps etc but this info may help 1 in 100 having issues!