ok here is some more nfo
root@ubuntu:/home/bam # ifconfig usb0 192.168.129.1 netmask 255.255.255.255 up
root@ubuntu:/home/bam # route add -host 192.168.129.220 usb0
root@ubuntu:/home/bam # ping -c 5 192.168.129.220
PING 192.168.129.220 (192.168.129.220) 56(84) bytes of data.
ping: sendmsg: Operation not permitted
ping: sendmsg: Operation not permitted
ping: sendmsg: Operation not permitted
ping: sendmsg: Operation not permitted
ping: sendmsg: Operation not permitted
had it conneced, now this, wierd
btw its eth over usb, not the wifi.