I wanted to note that I finally got opie-mail working. For some reason, I think libqte2 was fubar'ed, and unfortunately the ipkg is not available in the 3.5.2 feed.
Libqte2_2.3.7-r16 was available in the 3.5.1 feed, however getting it to install was a bit tricky. When I removed the original install, Opie died. Since I was doing my update from an SSH session (and I recommend anyome following this to do the same), I was able to wget the file and install it. You need to --force-depends (it requests tslib, but seems to work fine with what's already on my system).
If you want to gain a whole lot of ROM space, install libqte to sd/cf. You will gain about 2MB of free space, and the system is booting fine this way. Don't forget to issue "ipkg-link add libqte2" after installing. You should then be able to issue "/etc/init.d/opie start" and get your screen back up again.
Unfortunately, even after getting a working copy of libqte2 installed, opiemail still did not work for me. Uninstalled/reinstalled to sd, still no luck. So I uninstalled it again, then taking advantage of my newfound rom space, I installed opiemail to root. And it worked!?!? Manually copied the desktop links, pics, and libs back to sd, made the symlinks, and it's still working fine. This has got me scratching my head, however the program is working correctly now, I can pull my mailboxes, and the applet is also running.
So I still have no clue why most people are able to load this program with no problems, but I'm back up and running again with no apparent problems from the slight downgrade of libqte2. Hope this helps out for anyone else having a similar problem.